Most men learn to masturbate quickly and quietly, as testosterone-loaded adolescents worried about parents or siblings walking in and disturbing their personal time. And those secretive, fast-and-furious habits can spill into adulthood, says Emily Morse, a sex expert and host of the popular podcast Sex with Emily. Now that we're all stuck at home self-isolating, many of us have all the time in the world to masturbate. A childhood dream come true! There's no rush to get it done as quickly as possible: After all, we can only vacuum the apartment so many times a day. Really take your time with it.
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For years, women have had their pick of the latest and greatest sex toys. You can get them bejeweled, bedazzled, with various speeds, settings, and attachments. Men, on the other hand, have been treated as a one-size-fits-all situation. Um, hardly. Nowadays, there are hundreds yes, hundreds of male masturbator sex toys to choose from, and the ones for men are getting more creative than ever.
How to Masturbate If You Have a Penis: 9 Tips and Techniques
Because let's be real, everyone is different and has their own preferences, which means there are a lot of questions out there. You could be wondering: How the hell do I orgasm? What kind of sex toy do I buy? And, um, is there a safe way of doing things? To help, we rounded up our top masturbation advice — from both experts and normal masturbation-loving people — so that you can make sure your body is getting the proper love and attention it deserves.
We've already given you a guide for how to masturbate if you have a vagina. But what if you have a penis? Here's your guide for that, too — and yes, there actually is a lot to learn. This is giving very little credit to the art of masturbation and the multitude of pathways to explore, regardless of which set of reproductive organs you possess. Sex ed in America is a hot mess, and there is likely zero focus on pleasure of any kind, regardless of gender.